I decided to start a segment about taking pride in the way you look for the betterment of yourself. Yes, that was a mouthful but it’s definitely important. I feel there are a lot of women and girls who aren’t born with that “too cute to trot” gene were they automatically know what colors suit them or what hair makes them glow. Why do people think they need to consult with someone else about how they should look. There’s no way! How can someone who doesn’t walk in your skin on a daily basis now what you need to look and feel your best? Really, there are so many things in this world that may render you helpless.  This society is geared around the middle man. With magazines, show, movies, etc; its easy to understand why people feel they can’t achieve  goals  by themselves. No matter what, YOU must be responsible for the way you want to look.

I admire the women who do know off the bat what looks great on them, whether it be make up, colors, clothes, jewelry, what ever. These women make looking good look easy. Some women spend loads of money and some don’t. How do you know what type of women your are? Are you someone who will obsess over every little detail until it’s just right, or are you the one that could care less?

This might come as a shock to you, but I admire the women who spends hours on themselves. I think that shows they take pride in how they look. If they feel they need to spend hours to look good then that’s absolutely fine. But then  I love the women who don’t spend too much time, I feel they know they look good; A little eye liner here, a drop of foundation there, and a bit of lip gloss, sweep their hair in a nice pony tale then done! Brilliant. Regardless, your image is something you MUST take pride in. No if ands or buts! You owe it to yourself to be the best you can be! You don’t have to go about looking good the way others might, that’s why you must find your own way. Its not about being vain, its about loving yourself. I’ve read a lot of books on style, fashion, hair, whatever and they all have one thing in common. They show you the road to success, but through their perspective and them telling you what to do. The series of post I’m going to do is going to force you to ……THINK FOR YOURSELF!  I feel like your smart enough to know whats best for you, it’s all about being inspired. When I read these books on how you should dress or how you should put on makeup  or why you shouldn’t do this or that it makes me wonder.  Its nonsense to me because how on earth is anyone supposed to know what you like or what you look good in but you? It comes down to lasting confidence and identity. You have to feel good about yourself.  Sure, you could go to a stylist and they’ll pick out what they think you like according to what you say, but really…cut out the middle man they don’t know you like you do ;). This society is designed to make you feel like you need to follow follow follow. The strength in independence is remarkable. I knew this site would be a tool to set women,girls, and even men  free of the box they might be in, in terms of beauty and fashion.  Ultimately what matters is what I put in Bold print above. I’m not gonna tell you how to look but instead your going to find you all by yourself. From head to toe YOU!  Watch out for my next post. And as always feed back is always welcomed, so don’t be afraid to leave a comment.